The other day I came across this question on a message board and it really got me thinking about my time in middle school. Is it possible to gain popularity by using the Law Of Attraction?
I wish I had known this growing up in school because I think it would have helped me be a lot more successful in certain social situations.
In any event, there is no doubt that you can attract popularity by using the Law Of Attraction. It doesn’t matter if you want to gain popularity in school, sports, work, within your friends or even within your family… anything is possible with the Law Of Attraction!
Keep reading and we’ll talk about exactly what you need to do in order to start making this happen!
Love Yourself First
Before you can start attracting popularity you need to be happy with yourself. I can understand that you probably want to attract more popularity into your life because then it will help you love yourself more but that actually will not happen.
That’s the cold hard truth right there. If you think popularity will bring you self-love, you are in for a big surprise. If you gain the popularity that you wish but aren’t truly happy with yourself, you’ll feel good for maybe a month or 2… but then you’ll fall right back in your ways. So you need to take a little bit of time to start loving and appreciating yourself now.
Doing this will not only create a deep love for yourself, but you’ll actually begin to attract the popularity that you seek along with it. People are easily attracted to individuals who are outspoken and have a great amount of self esteem. So the more you practice these traits in yourself, the sooner you’ll start gaining popularity.
A good way to increase the love you have for yourself is to write down the things that you love about yourself and read them as often as possible. This list can be anything about yourself that pleases you.
Maybe your eye color, your smile, your compassion, your nails, your hair, your hands, your knowledge of the law of attraction, the muscles you have in your legs… anything! Really anything! I don’t like hearing when people say “I don’t like anything about myself” because that’s just false! You can find something about yourself that pleases you and when you do, write it down.
Now that you have a decent list, you need to read it at least 3 times a day. You want to do this so your mind doesn’t automatically go back to default.
You want to keep reminding yourself of why you love yourself so much. The more and more you do this, the more self love you are going to attract which is going to cause you to attract even more popularity!
This is where the fun starts coming into play… It’s time to visualize yourself with your new found popularity and feel it pulsate throughout your whole body!
When you feel the emotion of having something before you actually have it, it must come to you, that’s what the Law Of Attraction is all about. So the more you can feel the emotion of being popular, the sooner it will come to you.
Here is a good step-by-step method to follow for visualizing:
Close your eyes and imagine yourself feeling fantastic, wonderful, and exhilarated having everybody love you and want to hang out with you. Just doing this should give you a little jolt of excitement.
Any positive emotion that you feel is wonderful because that means you are matching up to the frequency of what you want. Remember, if you can see it in your mind’s eye, that means it can exist in this reality.
Play around with the idea of feeling cool and confident and attracting more and more friends into your life. See yourself feeling wonderful and excited and super social in every situation you are in. Even when you walk by strangers they have to turn and look at you because you simply ooze confidence.
Now that you are the most popular person that has ever lived, what are you going to do next? Are you going to hang out with some of your new friends? Are you going to go out and celebrate?
Keep asking yourself questions and amplifying your emotions each and every single time. Again, the more emotion you invoke from this process, the better the Law Of Attraction is going to work for you.
You can visualize as much as you want throughout the day and wherever you’d like to do it, however, my favorite time to do it is right before I go to sleep at night.
What you think about right before bed, carries on into your subconscious mind during your sleep. The cool thing about that is our life is governed 95% of our subconscious mind. It is literally 1,000 times more powerful than our conscious mind.
So if you are thinking about being popular and having amazing confidence right before you go to sleep, you’ll literally fall asleep while doing it and all those thoughts and desires will shift immediately into your subconscious. The power of your subconscious mind will literally begin to start making this your reality.
Every time you visualize you are literally one step closer to matching the vibration of your desire and manifesting it right into your existence.
Affirmations To Help Gain Popularity
In order to help you manifest more popularity into your life you need to start wiring your brain to understand that you are popular right now! In order to do that you should use Positive affirmations. Affirmations are statements that you say to yourself that help you create the reality you wish.
They work hand in hand with the Law Of Attraction and should be used on a daily basis. Here is a list of some affirmations to help you gain popularity below.
I would recommend choosing 3-5 of your favorites and reciting them as much as you can throughout your day:
I am a popular and happy individual
I can easily make friends
I can make people happy just by bein
g around them
I am good at making others smile
I am an optimistI can choose my friends wisely
Other people love being around me
People gravitate towards me as I am so positive
I enjoy being the centre of attention
I feel good about myself and others can see it
I am becoming more popular
Other people respect me
I know I can make friends easily
Other people see how confident I am
I attract others with my personality
Making friends comes naturally to me
I enjoy sharing my personality with others
Having a good friendship group is important to me
Act As If
Now it’s time to put all of this to the test! It’s time to act as if you already have all the popularity that you seek. When you start acting as if you have something before you have it, it must come to you! It’s the law!
So starting right now, you are going to step out of your comfort zone a little bit and start pretending as if you are super popular.
Start being louder when you speak, every time you feel a little shy, push through it and speak. Smile more often and acknowledge everyone you see. Imagine the most confident person you’ve ever met or heard of and try to pretend you are them.
This is easier said than done and you’ll feel yourself want to crawl back into your old ways, but don’t let yourself do it.
Fear is only an emotion and it cannot harm you. Feel the fear and push on! Keep affirming to yourself your true power with your affirmations and don’t stop until you start seeing it all work because it without a doubt will!
With all of this info, you are able to start attracting more popularity starting today. Remember, you have to create from the inside before anything can change from the outside.
Begin by practicing loving yourself and once you master that, the outside world will begin to change in your favor and you’ll begin oozing with popularity.