If you are finally deciding to put yourself out there on the dating market, the idea can sometimes be a little scary and overwhelming. Especially in today’s society when we have a lot of pressure to always have to be our best as much as possible.
Thankfully, we have the powers of the Universe and the Law Of Attraction to help us achieve the results we desire in the love and dating world.
Below you can find 10 Law Of Attraction dating tips that cannot steer you wrong if you follow them correctly.
Follow these tips and you’ll find unlimited love and success in your dating experience.
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1. The Past Is The Past
I placed this one first because it’s important to understand that the past should play no role in how you approach the dating world. So many of us tend to believe our past defines us in some way, like everything that happens has truly matter.
Maybe in the past you got a divorce, maybe you’ve been on 100 dates and they’ve all been failures, maybe you have some social anxiety issues. The reality of this is, this is all an illusion. The past is no more than a memory and nothing else.
The only reason we believe the past is important in some way in shaping us into who we are today is because we’ve attached some type of importance to the past and the things that have occurred. Let go of the past, understand it’s just an illusion and it’s not real.
From this point forward you can create whatever reality you want with the power of your thoughts. You can choose to ooze with confidence or you can put self imposed stresses on yourself.
I would suggest starting with a clean slate in your life and decide to move forward into the dating world with more confidence and exhilaration than ever before understanding that you have the Law Of Attraction guiding you every step of the way.
2. Find Love For Yourself
I think we can all agree we’ve heard this one before, you can’t love anybody until you love yourself. And while this gets stated often, it may be the truest thing that has ever been said. Brian Rose, creator of London Real has even taken this one step further and said, “We can’t see in others what we don’t see in ourselves.”
So when we don’t have a great love for ourselves, we have a hard time falling in love with others, when we don’t have an out-going confidence in ourselves, it’s hard for us to connect with others that are like that. Life is a complete internal game.
Work on starting to see the wonderful things about yourself and start focusing on those wonderful things. The more you see yourself in a positive light, the more it becomes the default of your thoughts and the more it will attract amazing love into your life.
Before each date that you go on, it’s important that your mind is programmed for dating success before you take any more steps forward! That’s why it’s a good idea to start using some positive dating/love affirmations that you can recite before you go on your dates or before you jump onto the dating bandwagon.
Affirmations are powerful because they help rewire your brain to think powerful thoughts by default and thus the Law Of Attraction kicks in and takes care of the rest. Here is a list of great dating affirmations to give you some confidence and positive reinforcement. These are shared from our friends over at FreeAffirmations.org:
I am confident with myself
I am sure of myself
I realize that a date is only potential, not set in stone
I relax on my dates
I am always myself, wherever I am
I am comfortable with my personality
I say what I need to say
I plan to be spontaneous
I am intuitive
I am expressive
I am naturally polite and romantic
I simply let the conversation carry us
My ideas and words flow fluently
I ignore urges to stutter and stammer
I am always relaxed on a date
My dates see the true me
My dates see me as a confident individual
I avoid being anything but myself
I naturally forget about looks
I was born with dating confidence
I recommend choosing 3-5 of your favorites and reciting them out loud before your dates and even to yourself during your dates.
4. Stop All That Negative Talk
When you start speaking negative things, you will attract negative things. It’s very easy for us to switch to a default mode in our minds and let the negative talk control our lives.
Maybe we had a few bad dates so that voice in our heads tells us that we are failures and we will never find true love. This couldn’t be further from the truth. That’s why it is important to control that conversation in your head and be your own booster.
Be your own #1 fan. Keep talking yourself up. The reason you haven’t had any success in dating yet is because you might be falling victim to this. So as of today, only tell yourself positive things. If a negative thought begins to creep in, immediately switch it to something more positive and keep doing that until you feel relief.
If you do this enough it will begin your normal habit of thought and you’ll begin attracting unlimited success in your life and dating life.
5. Calm Your Resistance
We always hear Abraham Hicks talk about the major role that ‘resistance’ plays in our lives and how it affects everything. The more resistance you have, the less you can manifest. The less resistance you have, the more everything begins to flow to you.
Much like negative self-talk, resistance can creep up when you least expect it and make the easiest things seem incredibly difficult. You might feel resistance around the idea of putting yourself out there and going on dates. You might feel resistance around the idea of falling in love and starting a family.
You might feel resistance simply having a conversation between 2 people. Whatever the situation is, resistance can be eliminated and once it is, life becomes so much better. One of the best ways to eliminate resistance is through the powerful practice of meditation.
Meditation calms our anxiety, stress, and allows us to experience life in bliss. When you are easier about life and in a blissful state you aren’t prone to feeling any resistance whatsoever. I meditate every single day for at least 10 minutes but I far prefer to do it for at least 20 minutes when I have more time.
If meditation isn’t something that you do on a regular basis that might be one of the reasons why you are having some trouble in your love-life. The more blissful you feel, the more of a receptive mode you are in and the more love you are going to attract.
Below is a great step by step method of meditating that I’ve shared from Chopra.com:
Find a comfortable place to sit. It’s best to find a quiet location where you won’t be disturbed. There is no need to sit cross-legged on the floor unless that is comfortable for you. You can sit on a chair or sofa or on the floor with your back against a wall. You may support yourself with cushions, pillows, or blankets.
The goal is to sit as upright as possible while still remaining comfortable. We all have different anatomies and you want your meditation experience to be enjoyable, so make your comfort a priority. Lying on your back is usually not recommended because most people fall asleep in this position, but you can try it if sitting is uncomfortable for you. The most important rule is that meditation can be practiced anywhere, as long as you’re comfortable.
Gently close your eyes and begin by taking some deep breaths. Try taking a few “cleansing breaths” by inhaling slowly through your nose and then exhaling out your mouth. After a few cleansing breaths, continue breathing at a normal relaxed pace through your nose with your lips gently closed.
Do not try and stop your thoughts or empty your mind. It is human nature and normal for the mind to wander. Do not try and stop your thoughts or “empty your mind.” Whenever you become aware that your attention has drifted away from your breathing to thoughts or any other distractions while meditating, simply return to silently focusing on your breath.
6. Be Easy About All Of It
You can also find ways to release resistance simply by living life with ease. Try being easy about the whole idea of dating and finding a mate. We live under this illusion that life is so important and we must treat everything seriously. Again, this is all an illusion. The only reason you think life is so serious is because you are creating that reality through your thoughts.
Be easy about things in your life. Go for walks, read books, go to the beach, eat a delicious meal, do something for yourself for a change just for the sake of doing it for yourself! Be nice to yourself in each moment of every day and you’ll start feeling those resistance levels drop.
Soon this feeling of low resistance will be your normal feeling each and every day and you’ll feel incredible freedom and love flow through every cell in your body. When you get to this state, now try to manifest the love of your life… it’s going to unfold faster than you can imagine.
7. Visualize The Perfect Date
There is a reason some of the most successful people in the world use the technique known as visualizing… because it works! When you visualize something in your mind, you are creating it right in your reality.
People like Will Smith, Lady Gaga and Arnold Schwarzenegger all use visualization to create the successes they are today. So why not use visualization techniques to visualize the perfect date for yourself? Instead of worrying about the things that could go wrong, just focus and be excited about all the things that can go right. Picture it in your mind until you feel how real it is. Once you get to that point, it must happen!
Here is a good step-by-step method to follow for visualizing:
Close your eyes and imagine yourself feeling fantastic, wonderful, and exhilarated because you just went on the most perfect date. Just doing this should give you a little jolt of excitement.
Any positive emotion that you feel is wonderful because that means you are matching up to the frequency of what you want. Remember, if you can see it in your mind’s eye, that means it can exist in this reality.
Play around with the idea and feeling of your breath being taken away when you look into the eyes of your date for the evening. See yourself feeling wonderful and excited and confident on your date with them.
What type of date are you going to go on? Are you going to dinner? A movie? A romantic stroll around the park? Make your vision as clear as possible and continue to amplify your emotions as much as you can.
Again, the more emotion you invoke from this process, the better the Law Of Attraction is going to work for you.
8. Just Have Fun With It
What is the fastest way to get the Law Of Attraction to work for you? To live a resistance free life! What is the best and easiest way to do so? Have fun! It’s that simple! When you vibrate in the state of “fun” you literally have no resistance whatsoever.
You are high on life and are receiving the best out of each and every moment. You are spontaneous and laugh a lot and joy just oozes from you in every moment that you feel like you’re having fun. That is quite simply the best vibration to have because it allows everything you want to easily flow to you.
When it comes to dating, just have fun with it! Just relax and enjoy every aspect of it. Enjoy both the positive aspects and negative aspects too. Go into the dating world knowing that no matter what happens, it is for your highest good and it is all part of your exploration of this wonderful planet.
If you approach it all like this, your results are going to be more incredible than you can even imagine.
9. Push Past Fear
Incidentally, when you start putting yourself out there in the dating world, you are going to feel some fear. Fear is completely natural and it is nothing to be scared of or hide from. This is completely against everything you may have been taught about fear.
Fear is actually a really good thing because it’s showing you a place where you can grow and expand. I always imagine the feeling of fear being like a brick wall and every time I overcome a fear, I am knocking that brick wall down! A great quote from The Teachings of Joshua on fear is as follows:
“This physical experience was not designed for you to seek comfort; it was designed for you to experience life. Sometimes these experiences are uncomfortable, but often there is a great reward for enduring a little discomfort.
If you hide out in your comfortable dwelling safe from uncomfortable experiences, you’ll miss the most important aspect of physical existence. You expand as a result of your experiences, and you’re here to expand.”
In other words, don’t let the feeling of discomfort hold you back from finding love! Get in situations that make yourself feel uncomfortable because that is absolutely a great thing! Nothing bad comes from feeling fear, only a great feeling of exhilaration after you’ve knocked that wall down.
10. Try Out A Dating Program
Even after taking some of the advice from above, if you still feel like you are lacking a little bit of confidence when it comes to dating, I recommend trying out a dating course/program.
If you invest in a course or program and follow through with it, you are going to gain new knowledge and therefore start shifting the momentum of your thoughts to that of a more confident state around dating. After that, the Law Of Attraction takes over from there!
You don’t need to go all out and spend hundreds on dating material, with just a quick search of Google, I found 2 different dating courses, one for women and another for men that are both under very affordable and both offer 60 day money back guarantees if you aren’t totally satisfied! I say in this case, you have nothing to lose at all by trying them!
That concludes our top 10 dating advice list using the Law Of Attraction! If you have any tips of your own, feel free to comment below and share with everyone. Happy dating!
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