Life can be such a wonderful expansive experience but nothing quite makes it better than having some wonderful co-creators by your side. In other words, best friends make all the difference in your life. There is nothing better than the feeling of sharing a laugh or a great memory with a person you trust and are very close to. Everybody’s case is different but there may be some people out there that are still looking to manifest that “best friend” and this article is for you!
In order to manifest a best friend using the Law Of Attraction it’s important that you understand it takes place completely from the inside and has nothing to do with anything on the outside. If you do the internal work on yourself, you’ll alter your vibration and attract a best friend right to your doorstep so to speak… you won’t have to go anywhere at all!
Keep reading and we’ll go over 4 ways in which you can manifest a best friend using the Law Of Attraction.
1. Be Best Friends With Yourself First
As we just touched on above, manifesting a best friend has nothing to do with actually going out and finding people because that best friend you desire already exists. It’s just a matter of attracting them into your life. In order to attract anything, you need to work on your vibration. Your vibration is based all around the thoughts that you think.
The more positive thoughts you think, the higher frequency you vibrate and the easier you can attract exactly what you want into your life. The nice thing about this is that it feels good to feel good right? Therefore you get rewarded even more by feeling good because you’ll start attracting incredible things into your life, including a best friend. It’s a win-win for sure! In this case, you are going to want to become best friends with yourself before you manifest a best friend.
Why is this? Well, you are unable to give a full friendship of love and trust to someone if you don’t even love yourself. Plus becoming your own best friend will ease some of your resistance around needing to attract a new best friend, simply put you don’t need any outside circumstances to make you happy and the minute you truly understand that is the minute you start attracting things from the outside! So start being nice to yourself. Treat yourself how you would the person you love most in your life.
Be easy on yourself and be your own #1 fan. Sometimes this is easier said than done but if you can start putting this into practice you will begin to attract the best friend you’ve always dreamed of.
One of my favorite Law Of Attraction practices are reciting affirmations. Affirmations are positive statements that you say to yourself either verbally or nonverbally that help you keep a positive, successful mindset and overcome any negative thoughts about yourself or your situation.
They are fantastic for keeping your vibration up and attracting new friends into your life.
When you continually repeat your affirmations, you start to believe them and you’ll see these positive changes take place in your life. It’s important that you remind yourself why you are here in this physical reality and that you are in complete control of your life.
Below are some amazing affirmations that promote a stress free lifestyle. These affirmations were shared from AffirmYourLife:
I am friendly to everyone I meet.
I am friendly toward each person I meet today.
I am immensely grateful for the wonderful people in my life.
I am increasingly interested in the life of every individual I meet.
I am increasingly interested in meeting new people.
I am loyal to my friends and family.
I am making new friends every day.
I am now willing to accept a happy, fulfilling relationships.
I am the best friend anyone could ever want.
I am the best of friends with my neighbors.
I am the kind of friend anyone would love to have.
I am welcome wherever I go because I make people feel fantastic.
I attract fun-loving, outgoing people.
I attract genuine friendships into my life.
I attract loving and uplifting people into my life.
I attract positive, passionate people into my life.
I bring joy into the lives of everyone I connect with.
I bring out the best in others.
I can always count on my friends.
I can easily be myself around my friends.
I can share anything with my closest friends.
I choose friends who are positive and supportive.
I connect with everyone I meet.
I connect with others easily.
I create an instant rapport with everyone I meet.
I create wonderful lasting relationships with people.
I delight in the company of my friends.
I develop lasting friendships with ease.
I easily connect with everyone I meet.
I easily make friends wherever I go.
I would recommend going through the list and choosing 5 of your favorites, write them down and recite them at least 3 times a day.
If you can do it more, then do it more. The more you recite them the quicker you will begin to believe them and the faster the Law Of Attraction will start working in your life to start attracting that best friend you desire.
3. Just Be You – Chill Out!
When the time comes and you start attracting new people in your life, if there’s one thing you need to do more than ever, it’s just be yourself! I know I’m someone that tends to get nervous in social situations but I try to remind myself as much as possible that every time I do this I’m dipping into a lower vibrational consciousness and thus attracting things that I do not want.
So when you do start meeting new people make sure you just chill out about the whole thing and just be yourself. The moment you start pretending to be someone else and telling little white lies to get someone to like you is the moment you start working against the Universe and everything it has in store for you. So the most important thing at this point is to not be over the top… not try to impress people… not do anything that is any different than who you truly are.
Just be you and watch how people become naturally drawn to you. If there are those they aren’t drawn to you, that means they aren’t for you and there is no need to chase anybody or anything.
4. Have Fun With It All
When it’s all said and done, the best thing you can do to allow the Law Of Attraction to do amazing things in your life is to simply have fun! The vibration of “fun” is one of absolutely no resistance whatsoever.
It is high up on the vibratioanl spiral and puts you in a place of attracting everything you want in life. When trying to attract a best friend, the last thing you should be doing is stressing and worrying about the situation. Like we talked about, it’s those very vibrations that work against you. Instead, just be playful and have fun with it. Make every day be a platform and a new curious opportunity to really see what happens.
The more you approach life like this in an “unattached” way, the better things will start to turn out for you. If you are constantly in stress or worry then you are closed off from receiving that new friend you desire. So from this point forward make it a priority that every single day you are going to feel good and have fun no matter what!
Hopefully by now you have a pretty good idea of what it takes to manifest a best friend. It all starts and ends with yourself and everything you need to do it is already within you. Just be easy about it and enjoy the process. That’s the key.
Keep your vibration high, be nice to yourself, and just have fun with everything. If you can adopt those stragetheis, not only will you be able to attract the best friend you desire, but a life beyond your wildest dreams.