Are you looking for a little more love in your life? More specifically, are you ready to manifest your ideal boyfriend? When it comes to using the Law Of Attraction and manifesting a relationship like a boyfriend, there are some key factors you must know before you begin.
Manifesting a boyfriend requires you get in the vibrational state of “allowing”. This means you cannot “chase” the boyfriend that you desire but you must let them come to you naturally. If you are sending out positive vibrations and are detached from the outcome… manifesting a boyfriend will happen easily!
Keep reading so I can share with you a few extremely crucial elements that you’ll need to know when going through the motions to manifest a boyfriend fast.
Be Happy And Satisfied With Yourself First
Before you even begin to think about manifesting a boyfriend, you need to make sure you are 100% happy, satisfied and feel worthy with yourself. If you are trying to manifest a boyfriend because you aren’t happy with your life and you feel like a boyfriend will make you happy, this is just simply not going to work.
You either won’t manifest anything at all, or you will manifest a boyfriend that is not going to give you any fulfillment and could potentially be harmful in your life. This is because how you feel about yourself is a reflection into your outer world. If you are not happy with yourself, you are going to attract people who are not happy with themselves either.
A great quote from author Neale Donald Walsch is, “The purpose of relationship is not to have another who might complete you, but to have another with whom you might share your completeness.”
Over the years we’ve always heard the term “my boyfriend completes me” and things along those lines… and honestly that’s not how it’s supposed to be. You should feel absolutely 100% “complete” just being you! And the desire to have a boyfriend should be because you want to share that completeness with them and expand even further!
If you aren’t here yet, I would recommend not moving forward with these manifestation practices yet and instead focus on yourself a little more so you can start feeling that wholeness within yourself that is truly the key to living an abundant life.
Get Clear On The Qualities Of Ideal Boyfriend
To get started with manifesting a boyfriend (and doing it fast), you want to get very clear on what it is you want. This is where many people trip up, they know they want a boyfriend in their life but they never get specific enough about what type of person they want… so they end up attracting more of what they are used to (like their exes!).
When you are attempting to manifest anything, it’s important to remember that the Universe loves when you are very distinct on what you want. So when you are finally ready to put your request out to the Universe for a boyfriend, make sure you are very clear on what you want.
Take the time, sit down and write down 10-20 qualities that you want your manifested boyfriend to have. Doing this really allows you to hone in and understand what it is you want, and it allows the Universe to understand it better as well. Here is an example list you may want to consider getting some ideas from:
My Ideal Boyfriend Qualities:
Active good listener
Takes care of appearance
This is just a small list and I recommend making yours bigger and more specific… but you get the idea! Once you’ve compiled your list, read it a few times so your mind and the Universe begin to sync up together. You’re then going to use this list for doing visualization practices!
Now that you know exactly what your ideal boyfriend’s qualities are (and probably have an idea of what you want him to look like) it’s time for some fun… visualization! Visualizing is so powerful because it allows you to see your future reality and really feel it before it’s even happened.
It’s like seeing a movie trailer of your life’s next exciting happenings. It’s crucial to remember that when you sit down to do visualization that you aren’t necessarily doing it to “see”, but you are doing it to “feel”. It’s the feeling and emotion you really want to focus on because that is the powerful magnetic energy that is going to pull the real situation into your reality.
If you can feel what it feels like to be with your perfect boyfriend right now, you start to attract it. Here is a great step-by-step method you can follow if you aren’t an experienced visualizer quite yet:
Close your eyes and imagine yourself feeling fantastic, wonderful, and exhilarated hanging out with that ideal boyfriend that you’ve been dreaming of. Just doing this should give you a little jolt of excitement.
Any positive emotion that you feel is wonderful because that means you are matching up to the frequency of what you want. Remember, if you can see it in your mind’s eye, that means it can exist in this reality.
Play around with the idea of feeling wonderful, fulfilled and loved as you are hanging out with your boyfriend. This is what you’ve been dreaming of… and it’s finally real!
Now that you have manifested the boyfriend of your dreams, what are you going to do next? Are you going to go out on a date with them? Go see a movie? Hang out at home together? Go on an exotic vacation? Tell all your friends about him?
Keep asking yourself questions and amplifying your emotions each and every single time. Again, the more emotion you invoke from this process, the better the Law Of Attraction is going to work for you.
Practice doing this at least once a day starting out for a few minutes. My favorite time to visualize is right before bed because what you think about before you go to sleep clicks into your subconscious find to attract it even faster! Find out what works best for you and put into practice.
Don’t Chase Them… Let Them Come To You
This is a big step that many people miss and it causes their manifestations to crash and burn. When it comes to a relationship and manifesting a boyfriend quickly, you need to let them come to you! That means you cannot go and chase someone around and try your hardest to get them to be your boyfriend.
If you’ve been perfect with all the other manifestation steps but you still have not manifested the boyfriend that you want, this is probably why. Chasing a relationship is the reason you are not in one. When you really really want something, you are sending out an energy to the Universe that you don’t have it. You are sending out a vibration of “being desperate”.
This vibration is full of resistance and keeps what you want from coming into your life. Vibrationally speaking, anytime you are chasing someone, it means that that person is running AWAY from you! Like we’ve talked about above, it’s important that you feel worthy and complete just being with yourself! That puts you in a very powerful state of allowing because you don’t need anybody else to make you happy.
As Abraham Hicks like to say, your ultimate point of attraction should feel something like this… “I’m not going anywhere… everything I want is coming to me.”
We can modify it a little to fit your situation and say, “I’m not chasing my ideal boyfriend, because my ideal boyfriend is coming right to me!”
If you can get to the point where you really feel that way and you can sit back, relax and trust that the Universe is setting things in motion to make your perfect boyfriend appear in your reality without you needing to lift a finger or do anything else, then it’s only a matter of days until they show up!
With that, you have everything you need in order to manifest the boyfriend of your dreams. The most important aspect of all of this is just maintaining that aligned of being satisfied with yourself and eager with your boyfriend to show up in your life. Don’t worry, don’t chase, don’t beg because all of this works against you!
Sit back, relax, and enjoy the unfolding of all of this taking place. I promise you before you know it, you’ll be feeling incredible with your new boyfriend right by your side!