How To Manifest Yourself Out Of The “Friend Zone”

So the worst thing ever just happened to you right? You were with your crush having an incredible time, and just when you thought things were heading to the next level they looked you in the eye and told you what an amazing “friend” you are! Cue the depression tune!

The feeling of being in the friend zone leaves room for so much to be desired especially when you have strong loving feelings for that particular person. 

So the question is, can the Law Of Attraction help you manifest yourself out of the friend zone? Of course, the answer is yes to this.

The Law Of Attraction can easily help you take yourself out of the dreaded friend zone and into a real relationship.

Read along and we’ll discuss exactly what steps you’ll want to take in order to make this a reality.

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Remember…You Attracted It

Part of the reason you are in the friend zone to begin with is because you attracted it! Remember, if you truly believe in the Law Of Attraction and the powers of the universe then you’ll know that everything that happens in your life is happening because of the vibration you are emitting. 

When it came to the thoughts regarding your crush, you may have had some resistance around it which caused you to manifest yourself into the friend zone. Most of the time it has to do with the thoughts you have about yourself and your worthiness.

Maybe you’ve had thoughts that you don’t feel like you truly deserve to be with this person.  Whatever the case is, you need to clean up these negative thoughts and start putting out much more confident and positive ones. Keep this in mind when we talk about affirmations later on in this article.

Be Happy With Yourself (Raise Your Vibration)

This is the key to making the Law Of Attraction in any area of your life.  You need to make sure your vibration is raised and you are feeling happy.

Not just feeling happy about life, but being happy and in love with yourself.  Loving yourself makes you attract love back to you from the outside world. The more happy you are in your own skin, the more it’ll show for you in the outside world. 

You need to make sure that no matter what the result of this friend zone situation is, that you will be happy with just having yourself. If you think that getting out of the friend zone and becoming a real couple with this person is going to make you happy and you cannot feel happy until you’ve attained this outcome, then the outcome will not happen. 

The Law Of Attraction will not bring it to you. Be in love with yourself first and you’ll attract the love that you seek.


Now that you understand why you may be in the friendship to begin with and what it takes to activate the Law Of Attraction in order to get out of it… it’s to take some action! A big crucial step in this process is the practice of visualization.

The key with visualization is you are doing it to “feel” your desire. If you can match the feeling of being in a relationship with your crush instead of the friend zone, you will start attracting it into your experience.

Here is a good step-by-step method to follow for visualizing:

Close your eyes and imagine yourself feeling fantastic, wonderful, and exhilarated because your crush has admitted their true love for you.

Any positive emotion that you feel is wonderful because that means you are matching up to the frequency of what you want. Remember, if you can see it in your mind’s eye, that means it can exist in this reality. 

Play around with the idea and feeling of your breath being taken away due to the love that you are feeling in the moment. See yourself feeling wonderful and excited and your significant other looking as wonderful as you are spending time together.

Now that you are now officially in a relationship together… what are you going to do now? Did you hug and kiss to celebrate? Are you going to dinner afterwards to celebrate? Are you going to tell your friends and family what happened?

Keep asking yourself questions and amplifying your emotions each and every single time.  Again, the more emotion you invoke from this process, the better the Law Of Attraction is going to work for you.

You can visualize as much as you want throughout the day and wherever you’d like to do it, however, my favorite time to do it is right before I go to sleep at night.

What you think about right before bed, carries on into your subconscious mind during your sleep. The cool thing about that is our life is governed 95% of our subconscious mind. It is literally 1,000 times more powerful than our conscious mind.

So if you are thinking about breaking free of the friend zone and into a real relationship, you’ll literally fall asleep while doing it and all those thoughts and desires will shift immediately into your subconscious. The power of your subconscious mind will literally begin to start making this your reality. 

Every time you visualize you are literally one step closer to matching the vibration of your desire and manifesting it right into your existence.


In addition to your daily visualization practices, reciting affirmations is an extremely powerful exercise that I recommend doing as well. 

Affirmations are positive statements that you say to yourself either verbally or nonverbally that help you keep a positive, attracting mindset and overcome any negative thoughts about yourself or your situation.

In your case, the affirmations would focus on your self love and self confidence allowing you to raise your vibration and attract the love that you seek.

When you continually repeat your affirmations, you start to believe them and you’ll see these positive changes take place in your life.

I would recommend going through the list and choosing 5 of your favorites, write them down and recite them at least 3 times a day.

If you can do it more, then do it more. The more you recite them the quicker you will begin to believe them and the faster the Law Of Attraction will start working in your life to manifest yourself out of the friend zone.

Below are some amazing affirmations that will help you to grow more self love and self confidence. These affirmations were shared from

I am worthy of love.

I am worthy of success and happiness.

I make a difference in the world.

I have wonderful talents to share with the world.

I am worthy of making my dreams come true.

I have a great potential within me.

I value my worth.

I deserve having what I want.

I love the person I am becoming.

I am improving every day.

I have the power to change anything I want.

I make good and wise decisions.

I believe in myself and my abilities.

I radiate with self confidence.

Being confident comes easily to me.

Let Go And Allow

Now that you’ve done the work and set everything up in place it’s time to simply let go of it all! It’s time to detach from the outcome altogether. It’s time to not care if you get out of the friend zone or not.

This step is crucial because if you are constantly wishing to be more than friends with your crush and you’re thinking about it and stressing about it, you are causing yourself a lot of angst and you are self sabotaging the entire situation. 

Remember, your vibration needs to be cleaned up and raised to a high vibrational frequency so you can attract the outcome that you want. If you are in a constant state of stress and worry your vibration is going to be all messed up.

So now is your time to put your full and complete trust in the Universe to bring you exactly what you seek. You’ve done the steps and everything right up to this point, so now just relax and know that your desire is coming to you.

Let the Universe pick the timing but understand that this friend zone situation will soon end and you’ll be happily in the relationship you want before you even know it.

Wrap Up

You now have everything you need to know in order to break free of the friend zone and into the relationship zone.  Remember, the entire idea of manifestation is a process and it does take some patience. However, when you try the steps in this article you’ll be amazed at how quickly you’ll start seeing the changes happen in your life.

Bonus Info

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