Are you having problems with premature ejacuation? I get it… it comes out of nowhere (literally) but is experienced by 39% of all males. Most men carry on with their lives and don’t try to face the problem head on mostly due to embarrassment. Others that do try to solve the issue turn to things like medication that can have long term damages.
The fact is, premature ejaculation can be cured and prevented using the power of your mind and your mind alone. The Law Of Attraction is the most powerful law in the universe and when you set your mind correctly, you can utlize it’s power and overcome your premature ejacultation problem once and for all.
Keep reading and we’ll dive a little deeper on the subject.
Stop Listening To Society
One of the main reasons you are having problems with premature ejaculation is because society is telling you that you have a problem! It is concreted into our brains that men should last long in the bedroom every single night with no hiccups or problems whatsoever. We see it in movies, on TV, in the media… it’s all there right in front of us telling us that we are lousy lovers!
The fact is, this couldn’t be more from the truth. However, since that’s all we see and hear every single day, we start to believe it. When we believe we should be a certain way but then aren’t able to live up to those standards, we become depressed, angry, helpless, and about any other negative emotion you can possibly think of! It’s time to shut society up and start listening to you and only you.
What if instead of believing everything that you heard from others, you only started believing the things that you told yourself. What if you blocked out all the negative stuff that society is trying to throw at you and you only started believing the things that you wanted to believe. If you did this, your life would shift so dramatically you wouldn’t even recognize yourself in a couple months.
Start doing this when it comes to your sex life and your premature ejaculations. Tell yourself that if it happens every once and while, it’s no big deal! Be ok and comfortable with it happening.
It sounds easier said than done but if you can get to this point, you’ll stop having premature ejaculations. Seriously, your sex life will become so much betters simply because you are not worried about finishing too fast and you are more relaxed and allowing to all other outcomes.
Stop Your Worrying
I’ll let you in on a little secret… premature ejaculation is completely 100% self imposed. That means, you are the one causing it based on your own thoughts. Don’t let science tell you that there is something genetically wrong with you or anything like that. It all comes down to the thoughts that you think.
Primarily, you are so worried about finishing too soon during sex, that you are going to finish too soon during sex. The Law Of Attraction teaches us that what you focus on expands. So if you are sitting there worried that you don’t want something to happen, chances are it is going to happen! So what if you stopped worrying all together?
What if you approach sex with a completely open mind and allowed whatever outcome that was suppose to be happen, happen! If you went into every sexual encounter like this, you would never have a premature ejaculation again. Your thoughts would have so much power behind them and practically zero resistance that the Universe will yield to you.
According to Abraham Hicks, every time you feel the need to worry about something you should catch yourself and simply laugh the worry away. There is never anything to worry about and worrying never serves you any good purpose. So just remind yourself that you are a master creator and able to create anything you choose to but you need to stop worrying, because that is what is keeping what you want from coming into your life.
Once you stop worrying about premature ejacuatlion, you will no longer suffer from premature ejaculation.
Sex Should Always Be Fun
Do you know what the greatest emotion (or vibration) that one can ever experience? It’s the emotion of FUN! Having fun is the most powerful emotion you can feel because there is absolutely no resistance in fun.
Think of a young child, when a child is having fun they have not a care in the world. They run around and play and not give a darn what anybody thinks. They say what they want to say and do what they want to do. That’s why some of our best memories are from when we are kids!
If you approach sex in the same way, you’ll experience it without any resistance and you’ll have some of the best sex in your entire life. Don’t worry about premature ejaculation, don’t worry about doing the right things, just focus on making it fun and having as much of a thrill as possible.
If you can turn sex into a fun activity, the universe and Law Of Attraction will once again respond to your mindset and allow it to be that way every single time. The more fun you are having, the less premature ejaculations are going to experience.
Another great way to utilize the Law Of Attraction in overcoming premature ejaculation is to use visualization techniques. Visualizing is very powerful because it allows you to feel the feelings and emotions of having the thing that you want before you actually have it. If you can do this consistently, you will attract the thing that you desire.
Right now, you are desiring to not suffer from premature ejaculation. So in this case you’ll want to see yourself having incredible, amazing, long lasting, and exhilarating sex every chance you get.
Here is a great step-by-step method to follow for visualizing:
Close your eyes and imagine yourself feeling fantastic, wonderful, and exhilarated because each and everytime you have sex, you perform incredibly well. Just doing this should give you a little jolt of excitement. Any positive emotion that you feel is wonderful because that means you are matching up to the frequency of what you want. Remember, if you can see it in your mind’s eye, that means it can exist in this reality.
Play around with the idea of feeling amazing and confident that you can last as long as you desire in bed. See yourself feeling wonderful and excited and totally confident everywhere you go.
Now that you no longer suffer from premature ejaculation, what are you going to do next? Are you going to make love to your wife or partner? Go out on the town tonight to see if you can get lucky?
Keep asking yourself questions and amplifying your emotions each and every single time. Again, the more emotion you invoke from this process, the better the Law Of Attraction is going to work for you.
You can visualize as much as you want throughout the day and wherever you’d like to do it. Depending on how many days/nights you have before your interview you can also partake in “before bed visualization”.
What you think about right before bed, carries on into your subconscious mind during your sleep. The cool thing about that is our life is governed 95% of our subconscious mind. It is literally 1,000 times more powerful than our conscious mind.
So if you are thinking about your new sexual stamina before you go to sleep, you’ll literally fall asleep while doing it and all those thoughts and desires will shift immediately into your subconscious. The power of your subconscious mind will literally begin to start making this your reality.
Every time you visualize you are literally one step closer to matching the vibration of your desire and manifesting it right into your existence.
Take Action If It’s Inspired
Many people get confused when it comes to manifestation if they are supposed to take action or not. It’s important to note sometimes action is definitely required if it feels inspired. For instance, let’s say you go through all the steps above in order to get rid of your premature ejaculation and then you begin seeing commercials for sexual enhancement products like specific vitamins and lotions.
You need to pay attention to these happenings because this may be the Universe telling you to take action and try one of these methods. If you see something or get an idea that feels really good and inspired, that’s the Universe telling you to go forth and take action on it!
You can even do a simple search around the Internet if you feel inspired to do so. With just a simple search I found this program online called Ejaculation By Command that guarantees you’ll last 30 to 60 minutes in bed by using their methods or they’ll give you your money back! There are a lot of testimonials on the website also of people who used the program and found success.
You can check out the Ejaculation By Command website by clicking here (Opens a new tab). As I said, sometimes the Law Of Attraction requires you to take action to get the thing you most desire. If nothing else has worked for you, maybe trying this program along with the other manifestation steps in this article is exactly what you need to overcome premature ejaculation once and for all.
So with that, you have everything you need to know in order to use the Law Of Attraction to overcome premature ejacuatlion. It all comes down to the thoughts you think and your vibration.
If you are constantly worrying about finishing too soon during sex, then that is exactly what you are manifesting. However, if you begin to think more confidently, and have fun with sex instead of taking it so seriously, you’ll start to clean up your vibration and begin attracting the sexual stamina that you really desire.