In this article we are going to talking about how chasing love and relationships is actually keeping them from coming to you! The more you crave or want a specific person.. the further they go away. However, using the techniques we are going to discuss today you can easily make a small shift in your consciousness so instead of chasing love and relationships… they will chase you! It all comes down to this… Once you stop caring, they start chasing you.
It all comes down to your neediness and your caring which is actually keeping the love that you want from coming into your experience.
When you keep trying and you are putting out the energy that you really really want a relationship and you really really want a specific person. You are putting out resistance. You are sending a message to the universe that you lack something. The universe hears you and is basically saying… “wow you are enjoying the feeling of lack so much since you are feeling it every single day… so let me give you more of that.” So you are going to keep getting stuck in this loop of chasing someone but never getting them.
Neediness Repels The Things You Want
The fact of the matter is – Neediness Repels The Things That You Want.
When you need something or want something so badly… you either won’t get it… or if you do find a way to fight and struggle to get it.. you’ll never be able to hang onto it and it will leave you faster than you got it
I know in my own life… every time I chased a relationship, I would never ever get… and even on the times when I tried really hard and I did get it…it never ever lasted! Because I was always focused on the external and not the internal… not my vibration.
In the time in my life when I met the woman who is now my wife… I wasn’t even looking for a relationship! I was just having fun and being happy just being ME! It’s almost as if it happened on accident! I wasn’t expecting it at all. And here we are married for nearly 3 years Now and we are happier than ever.
So what’s the key to all of this… STOP CARING! STOP NEEDING ANYTHING! The key is to realize that your happiness does not depend on anybody else but YOU! You have to stop externalizing your own happiness and start focusing only on yourself and your own vibration! Start raising yourself to the highest version of who you are.
Focus On Your Own Abundance
Focus on your own abundance. The opposite of LACK is Abundance! And remember abundance isn’t just money! It’s self love, self worth, it’s confidence, it’s general well-being. So make your #1 priority to feel great because the Universe gives you what you are. So if you are constantly focused on yourself and feeling wonderful, feeling gratitude, having fun in your life, falling in love with yourself…. Then it’s only a matter of time until love starts chasing you!
So here’s some things you can start doing on a daily basis to start focusing on your own abundance:
Meditation – Connect with your higher self every single day but partaking in some fun meditation practices. Find a mediation on well-being from Abraham Hicks or someone else and do it every single day to put you into a relaxed and feeling good state.
Practice Positive Affirmations – The universe is constantly responding to your point of attraction… which means it is always responding to how you are feeling now.. and how you are feeling now… and how you are feeling now. So take some time to instantly raise your vibration by stating out loud some positive affirmations about yourself. When you say an affirmation, practice feeling it as well and really believing that it is true, even if you don’t fully believe it.
1. I am full of life and filled with possibility.
2. I am ever-expanding yet whole; wise enough to know that there is plenty left to learn; humble and happy as I grow.
3. I am grateful for who I am and can be.
4. I am devoted to uncovering the gems that are already here.
5. I am enough and I have everything I need to get to where I want to be.
6. I am a magnet for the experiences I most desire.
7. I am grateful for every gift that I’ve been given, have now, and have yet to receive.
8. I am an alchemist.
9. I am worthy enough to tune into the abundant nature of who I can be and what I can create.
HAVE FUN – “Find as much fun as you possibly can in a day and then do anything else you have time for” – Abraham Hicks
Just like love, The vibration of fun is one of the most powerful in the entire universe because when you are having fun you are feeling absolutely zero resistance! The key to manifestation and living the life of your desires is to be free of resistance! So do things that make you feel good and things that are fun for you. Make a list of everything that you enjoy doing and do them every single day as much as you can. The more fun you have, the more of a powerful attraction you become!
These are just a few examples of things you can do for yourself but really the opportunities are endless!
Once you get to that point where you are feeling blissfulness… when you wake up exited to take your first breath… when you are eager to see what the day is going to bring you… when you just feel an overwhelming feeling of love and satisfactions inside of you just because YOU ARE YOU! that’s when you know you’ve hit a vibration milestone! And that is when you know the universe is literally conspiring and bending over backwards to bring you everything that you want… that’s when you know that the love that you want is CHASING YOU! And its only a matter of time before it appears right before your very eyes!