Earlier this year I wrote an article on How To Attract The Guy That You Want. The article is one of the most read on the site but also stemmed a lot of questions. Rather than a specific person many people out there wanted to know in general how to manifest more love in their life. This could be partners, this could be self love, this could be friendship, and much more. Since attracting a specific love interest and attracting more love in your life do share a lot of the same steps I decided to take the article I had already written and add to it to create 11 Sure Fire Ways To Manifest More Love In Your Life.
To manifest more love in your life, it has everything to do with your vibration and point of attraction. Are you feeling sad and lonely all the time? If you are, you’re off your vibration and aren’t going to be attracting love. Read below as I go through 11 different ways to manifest more love in your life.
1. Love Yourself First
The key to manifesting more love into your life is loving yourself first. If you truly are confident and love who you are, you are going to be sending out high frequency vibrations all day long. These high vibrations are what is going to attract even more love into your life. You simply cannot look at life thinking by attracting a love interest will make you love your life or yourself more. That’s not how life or the Law Of Attraction works. You need to love yourself first… and then the person you desire will begin to surface into your life. A wonderful quote by Louise Hay is:
“When people start to love themselves more each day, it’s amazing how their lives get better. They feel better. They get the jobs they want. They have the money they need. Their relationships either improve, or the negative ones dissolve and new ones begin.” – Louise Hay
Find reasons to feel good about yourself and really hone in on those. Make those your point of attraction and you’ll begin attracting more and more self love in your life. The more self love you bring, the more love in general you’ll start seeing appear in your life.
Another way to start manifesting more love in your life is to start the process of visualization. Remember, you aren’t visualizing to create, you are visualizing to FEEL. You want to create the feeling of having the love that you want before you actually have it. When you reach that feeling Law Of Attraction is going to begin responding to that vibration. So pick a time that is convenient for you and try to do at least 10-15 minutes of visualizing a day.
Close your eyes and imagine yourself with the love of your life. Dig deep into the visualization and imagine you’re doing something fun together. What color are their eyes? What are they wearing? What are they saying? Get as specific as you can. The more specific you get the better the whole process works. The more you visualize the more you begin to feel. Again the key is feeling the emotion. Milk the emotion for everything you possibly can! How does it feel to have so much love in your life? Do you feel happy and fulfilled? You can play around with this as much as you please as long as you are creating happy and exciting emotions from it, then it’s working!
3. Raise Your Vibration By Being As Happy As Possible
In order to continue vibrating at the high frequency we talked about above you need to be happy as much as you possibly can. Being happy and feeling grateful allows you to vibrate at an extremely high frequency which causes you to attract more amazing things in your life. If for one week you decided to be as happy as possible every single day at the end of that week your life would be changed completely.
You would attract so many incredible experiences and you’d wonder why you ever chose to feel any negative emotion in your life to begin with! A great exercise that works for me in being as happy as possible is making a list of everything in my life I feel happy and grateful for! I keep this list inside my cell phone and anytime throughout the day I may start feeling tired or negative emotion arise, I pull out the list and read through it.
This instantly shifts my focus on things that please me which gets me back up in the higher vibrating frequency. By continuing to stay in this high vibrating state throughout your day, you’ll end up attracting so much more than love in your life. The money, health, passion, and well-being you desire will also start flooding into your life as well! So make sure you leave plenty of room in your day for fun, relaxation, and happiness… those emotions are the gateway to getting anything you want!
4. Let Go Of Expectations
So many out there get confused with the whole notion of letting go of all expectations. What this means is you cannot attach yourself to the outcome. In other words, you have to not care if you start manifesting more love in your life or not! How can this be you might ask? Let me explain… If you are so attached to an outcome and are holding onto it so tightly, you aren’t open to receiving anything new into your life. The Universe has your back. The Universe is going to give you what is the BEST option for you…even if you don’t see it!
You should sit back and trust the Universe. Trust it is going to deliver to you all the love you desire. Trust and never doubt! Let the Universe pick the timing of it and watch how fast it happens. When you have that mindset there is nothing you can’t manifest or attract in your life.
Check out this video below of Eric Ho talking about Letting Go…
5. Take Action If Required
When it comes to any type of manifestation using the Law Of Attraction keep in mind action may be required. Many people think that by following the steps no action should be necessary, however that’s not how the Universe works all the time. While it is definitely possible to manifest without doing anything physical, you need to understand that sometimes it is essential! If at any point during this process you feel inspired to do something regarding the love you seek, then you should do it! Maybe you randomly feel inspired to send a text to someone you are fond of or give them a call. Maybe you see somebody you find attractive out on the town and you feel inspired to go up and speak to them.
If you feel a nudge to do something and feel some excitement from that nudge, it means the Universe is telling you to go do it! It’s these little actions that we take will get us closer to achieving the manifestation we desire. So don’t automatically assume you can just sit in your house by yourself and practice being happy and visualizing. As I said, sometimes that works! But have an open mind and understand that sometimes in order to get what you want, the Universe is going to have you take some action regarding what you want!
6. Needing Nothing Manifests Everything
To sum up how to really manifest in just one sentence would be this: Needing nothing manifests everything. The idea behind this is when you are completely satisfied and happy with your life you will encounter no resistance. When you have no resistance in youre life, you begin to manifest anything and everything. When you get to the point that you no longer need love, that is when the love will begin to blossom in your life. So again… how do you get to that point where you are so completely happy and satisfied that you don’t need anything?
You need to come to the realization that you are worthy of everything you desire. That eventually everything you want will come to you so instead of stressing about when and how it’ll come, just kick back, relax and enjoy what you already have. Abraham Hicks says the best point of attraction there possibly is is: “Satisfied with where I am and eager for more”. When you have this mindset you will soon find you will attract everything you want because there is no resistance in that at all.
7. Find Ways To Have Fun
What’s the best way to get anything you want in your life to easily flow to you? The answer is simple… HAVE FUN! The frequency of FUN is so high up on your vibrational spiral that if every single day you had as much fun as humanly possible… you would manifest everything so simply into your life. The problem is we are too busy thinking it ways that bring us stress and worry so we are vibrating at very low levels. When you are having fun you experience no resistance whatsoever and when you aren’t experiencing resistance you are attracting amazing things into your life. The best part about it is, it’s fun to have fun!
Wake up every day and make it your motive to try and have fun in everything that you do today. Even if you are going to the same boring job and doing the same boring chores over and and over… find a way to focus on some of the fun aspects of it. Keep your focus on that and your low vibrational state will begin to sky rocket and you are going to soon watch as more love begins to flood into your life.
8. Take Love/Relationship Online Quizzes
In order to truly understand where we are lacking in the love department, it can be a great idea to take an online love/relationship quiz. These quizzes are usually free and consist of questions about your life and feelings. At the end of the quiz, you are generated a results page that shows where exactly your strengths and weaknesses are when it comes to love and relationships. When you see some of the areas where maybe you are lacking or could use some improvement, use some of your trip to improve on those areas.
Maybe you truly lack confidence because you are unhappy with the way you look. Use what we’ve already talked about in this article to practice ways to prove that confidence like visualization. Whatever area you make be lacking in try to work to improve it and you’ll soon see more love flow into your life. For a quick and easy love quiz I found this one online. Once you fill it out they will email you the results
9. Immerse Yourself In Love
When you are trying to manifest more of something in your life it’s important that you really surround yourself with it. Immerse yourself with the idea of love in all that you do. A fun activity to try is to go all day long and just think about the word “Love”. The more you do this the more love you’ll start to encounter in your life. You’ll start seeing love in the sky and the air you breathe, you’ll start seeing love in the relationships and a friendships you have, maybe you’ll even start seeing love in random acts of kindness on the street.
The more you focus on something, the more you attract it in your life. You can also read books on love and relationships. By doing this, not only are you attracting more love in your life (because you are focusing on it) but you are becoming more confident and knowledgeable on the subject. This will come in handy if the Universe requires you to take action because you won’t be fearful, instead you’ll be knowledgeable and confident on the subject!
10. Try Manifestation Magic
I love promoting this program on QuickManifest.com because it works so well! Manifestation Magic is a complete Law Of Attraction program that gives you all the information and practice material to become a master at manifesting! I tried this program way back when I first discovered the Law Of Attraction and it helped me manifest an amazing vacation even when I had almost $0 in my bank account.
Manifestation Magic guarantees that you’ll start manifesting your dreams in 24 hours or less or they’ll refund your money. If you are interested you can click here to watch a video to find out more about the program.
11. Use Positive Affirmations
So how can you begin to love yourself more? I love to use positive affirmations. To me, affirmations are the most powerful technique that the Law Of Attraction has to offer and can often change your vibration in an instant. Below are some of my favorite affirmations on Love from AwakenTheGreatnessWithin.com and TheLawOfAttraction.com. I would recommend reciting these as much as you possibly can to begin re-wiring your brain and attracting what you preach!
- I am surrounded by love every day in every way.
- My heart is always open to love.
- All I see is love.
- In life I always get what I give and I always give out love.
- I attract love in abundance.
- Everywhere I go, I find love. Life is joyous.
- I love myself.
- I radiate love.
- Love flows through me.
- Love shines from within me.
- My business allows me to have a life I love.
- I am grateful for the love that is around me.
- I am attracted to love.
- I am worthy of great love.
- I spread love with my words, deeds, and life.
- My vibration is love.
- Love wants me.
- I am cocooned in the loving energy of the universe.
- I am attuned to the frequency of love and abundance.
- I am love.
- All of my relationships are long-term and offer a positive, loving experience.
- I am worthy of love and deserve to receive love in abundance.
- I love those around me and I love myself. Others show me love.
- I attract loving and caring people into my life.
- My partner and I are both happy and in love. Our relationship is joyous.
- I am thankful for the love in my life and I am thankful for my caring partner.
- I only attract healthy, loving relationships.
- I am with the love of my life. We both treat each other with respect.
- I happily give and receive love each day.
- I am so thankful for my partner and how caring they are.
- Each day I am so grateful for how loved I am and much people care about me.
- I know and trust that the Universe will only bring me loyal supporting and loving relationships.
- I open my heart to love and know that I deserve it.
- Wherever I go and whoever I am with,I find love
- I deserve to receive the love I get and I open myself to the love the Universe gives me.
- I am open to marriage and attracting my future spouse.
- My love (and/or marriage) grows stronger every day.
- I am capable and deserving of a long lasting relationship.
- My relationship will be open, honest and full of abundance.
- Love surrounds me and everyone around me.
- I am attracting my dream future.
- I am confident, self-assured and full of charisma.
- My partner is a reflection of me.
- I will never give up on finding true love.
- I exhale negativity and inhale happiness.
- Today I will continue to create the foundation of a happy and loving relationship.
- I love my soulmate and I love myself.
- A happy partnership is supportive, balanced and affectionate.
- I am manifesting my dream partner.
- The Law Of Attraction is a natural law that attracts what we focus on into our lives. Today I will attract love and happiness.
- My relationships are always fulfilling.
- I love being in a relationship.
- Happiness begins with me and me alone. I have the power to create my own happiness.
- I let go of my past relationships and look to the future.
- I only think positively about love.
So there you have a full list of 11 different ways you can manifest more love in your life. I recommend doing with the one that resonates with you most and practice with that. If one way isn’t working well for you, feel free to move onto the next one. Doing each of these individually is enough to manifest all the love you desire and you don’t have to do multiple at the same time.
If done correctly, you should begin seeing more love within the same day as you practice. These steps work quickly and I am confident that in no time you’ll start seeing so much love in your life you are going to feel overwhelmed!
Here is quick recap of the 11 different ways you can manifest more love in your life!
- Love yourself first
- Raise your vibration by being as happy as possible
- Let go of expectation
- Take action if required
- Needing nothing manifests everything
- Find Ways To Have Fun
- Take Love/Relationship Online Quizzes
- Immerse Yourself In Love
- Try Manifestation Magic
- Use Positive Affirmations