It’s difficult sometimes when we can see the Law Of Attraction work so many miracles in people’s lives yet when we try to use it, it flat out fails! What are we doing wrong? What are we missing?
There are quite a few steps to the idea of the Universe and Law Of Attraction so it’s hard to pinpoint exactly what step could be causing it not to work in your life.
Below you’ll find the top 10 most common reasons why the Law Of Attraction isn’t working for you.
Read through the list and descriptions and find the one that feels like it resonates with you most. More than likely that is the one you need some improvement on!
1. You Are Letting Irrational Fear Get In The Way
In the human race I think we can all agree that we have this one thing in common… On more than one occasion, we let irrational fear get in the way of us doing what we were inspired to do. What is irrational fear you may ask? It is essentially when fear arises within you but your life is in no way in jeopardy of ending.
Fear should only be experienced when our life is being threatened. It worked wonders way back in the day when man had to battle sabre tooth tigers and woolly mammoths, however, in our modern day society, we never experience our lives being threatened like that. Instead though our fear translates into things like worry, embarrassment, and jealousy.
All of these emotions are irrational fears because they cannot kill us. The Universe is sending you opportunity after opportunity, day after day to turn your dreams into reality, however, you are letting irrational fear get in the way of taking action on those opportunities. It’s time that you stopped letting fear get in the way and just do it.
Take action next time you see an opportunity arise and know that the Universe has your back. You cannot fail because there is no such thing as failure. Your experiences will always lead you to something better and more ideas from the Universe.
Check out this video below from Law Of Attraction practitioner and millionaire Dan Pena about missing out on opportunities.
**I do want to warn you this video has some explicit language so viewer discretion is advised. Feel free to watch the video with the volume muted as you will still understand the idea behind the video.
2. You Aren’t Vibing High Enough
Sometimes we need to go back and think about the basics of the Law Of Attraction. The Law Of Attraction is all based on vibrational frequency. Are you thinking thoughts that put you in a high vibrational state or a low vibrational state? Are you in a constant state of worry or are you in a state of allowing every single day?
Odds are, if the Law Of Attraction is failing you it means you aren’t vibrating high enough on your spiral. You may need to go back to basics and start writing down a list of things that make you feel really good.
That list can consist of family members, your children, your favorite vacation spot, your pets, or even parts of yourself like your smile, or your eyes. Play around with that idea and make a list of things that when you think about them just make you feel great.
After you’ve written out your list, put it into action by reading it to yourself at least 3 times a day. When you do this you shift the momentum of your thoughts and keep yourself in a higher vibration throughout your day.
You can even use your list at times when you feel yourself slipping into negative thoughts. Pull out your list, read through it, and instantly feel a boost of joy, happiness, and gratitude.
The more you do this, the more it will turn into your habit of thought and you’ll be vibrating positively more often than not which will only attract more positive things into your experience.
3. You Aren’t Having Fun
If you have studied the Law Of Attraction at all, you know one of the big reasons it fails for many people is because they have way too much resistance in their thought patterns. Resistant thoughts come from fear and paralyze you from being able to manifest what you truly want in your life.
There is, however, a cure to resistance. That cure is FUN! When you are having fun, you are in a complete resistance-free mindset.
You aren’t worried about a thing and only focused solely on the present moment. The feeling of fun is the most powerful in the entire Universe. Every single thing that you do, you can have fun doing it, it doesn’t matter what it is.
Find ways to make games out of situations in your life and understand that you cannot fail because the Universe has your back. If you woke up every single day with the only priority being to have fun, you would literally begin to manifest everything you wanted within a week’s time.
Your well-being would be flowing so quickly you might even feel overwhelmed with joy. So starting today, have fun with your life.
Do things that are fun! The things that aren’t fun… change your thoughts and make them fun! Make a game out of your life and overtime you’ll start feeling those resistance levels lower within you and you’ll start to see all the amazing things the Law Of Attraction brings you!
4. You Are Taking Life Too Seriously
The Joker said it best …”Why So Serious??” When you begin taking life too seriously, you begin altering your point of attraction to a very low vibrational state. Life is whatever you want it to be. Remember, no matter what perspective you take on your life, the Universe is going to take care of you.
That means, you can choose to have life be completely spontaneous and fun and silly every single day. Many people believe that life needs to be taken seriously and if you don’t then you simply won’t get ahead in life. Actually, the opposite is true and that’s why the Law Of Attraction fails for many.
When you are having fun without a care in the world, you are living a resistance free life. When you have no resistance in your vibration you are constantly manifesting every single thing you want fast and easy. Take a good look at yourself and see if you are taking things too serious in your life.
This could be a big reason why the Law Of Attraction is failing you. Start easing up on all aspects of your life and just start having fun with things.
Practice feeling good and relaxing more and just let things end up how they should without a care in the world.
5. You Are Too Attached To The Outcome
One big issue we all run into in our lives is we started creating attachments to the way we think things should be. We feel like if we don’t get that job promotion, we can’t feel good. We feel like we don’t get into this specific college, we can’t feel good. We feel like if we ask a person on a date and they say no, we can’t feel good.
All of this is just an illusion that we’ve made up. We have created an attachment to a certain outcome in our mind and we think things have to happen this way.
The truth is, when you do that you limit the Law Of Attraction and its power. You think you know how things are supposed to go, and when they don’t go that way, you dip into a low vibrational state.
However, you don’t have all the information and answers so you don’t know what the actual end result that the Universe had in store for you.
You hear countless stories of people getting rejected or fired from a job or having a life altering event take place in their life that they all initially perceive as negative, but it opened brand new doors for them and they ended up becoming successful because of it.
That is the Universe working its magic! Sometimes the only way for the Universe to get you to achieve your destiny is to shake and rattle your life a little bit!
That’s why it’s important to detach from everything you think needs to happen and just set you focus on feeling good and having fun. Nothing needs to happen! Living life in this way will ensure the Law Of Attraction never fails you!
Check out this quote from Joshua, Channeled By Gary Temple Bodley about detaching from outcomes:
“You need to release an attachment to an outcome. You are driven to this attachments to outcomes… and this attachment to outcomes is only going to dip you into a negative or limited state of being. It will connect you to a consciousness of fear and lack and will release you from your true power.
There is nothing that needs to happen, there is the divine timing of everything, there is the perfection in every moment. When you have an attachment to something you think you want, you’ll use that as an excuse to feel good when you get there.
Anytime that you perceive that things aren’t going the way you think they should go… it’s your indication that you are attaching value to some result and from your perspective, seems like the preferable result but yet you do not know all the inner workings and you do not have the information…. Eventually without knowing exactly how… everything will turn out perfectly. It always has.”
6. You Aren’t Trusting The Universe
So many of us tend to forget that the Law Of Attraction has our back! The Universe wants to bring us everything we want in this life. The Universe knows way more about the situation than we do, an infinite amount to be exact. So it knows the absolute perfect, divine time to deliver everything you’ve ever wanted.
Sometimes patience is not our strong suit and we want instant gratification. We want the Law Of Attraction to work right this very second and we don’t want to wait around. That’s just not how it works most of the time and thinking about that only puts you in a very low vibrational state.
That low vibrational state makes it take even longer for the thing you want to show up.
Here is a quote from Abraham Hicks on this very subject:
“Everything you want is coming. Relax and let the universe pick the timing and the way. You just need to trust that what you want is coming, and watch how fast it comes.”
You are asking the Universe to bring you the stuff you want but the Universe is asking you to show it some trust. Relax and understand that it is coming. There is no need to worry or feel doubt. Trust! Trust! Trust!
7. You Don’t Believe You Are Worthy
This is another key reason the Law Of Attraction is failing you. Deep down inside, you don’t even believe you are worthy of the things that you want. You might have some subconscious beliefs blocking the things you want to come.
You might be asking for a brand new car or a brand new house or a million dollars but you truly don’t see yourself as the type of person that owns and deserves that kind of stuff. Those very thoughts are working completely against you.
You need to come to understand that just the fact that you are here on planet earth experiencing life means you are worthy behind belief! Anything you can imagine in your mind you are worthy of. If someone else can do it or have it, that means you are worthy of it too!
Check out this quote from The Joshua Diet by Gary Temple Bodley on worthiness:
“Think of Earth as an amusement park, like Disneyland. You came here because you thought it would be fun and exhilarating. You go to Disneyland because you think it will be fun and exhilarating. When you buy your ticket and enter through the gates, you don’t believe that you are better or worse than any other fun-seeker there.
You believe you have just as much right to ride any ride and see any attraction as the next person. There’s no plausible reason to believe you are any less worthy than anyone else on this playground called Earth. You’ve paid your ticket and you are here. That means you are worthy to be here. You are worthy enough to live the life you desire.”
8. You Aren’t Visualizing Before Bed
Remember, an important step to the Law Of Attraction is using visualization techniques to actually see your desires before you have them. This attracts them so much quicker to you. And while there really isn’t a bad time to do your visualization practices… This is one very beneficial time to do it! That is right before you go to sleep at night!
What you think about right before bed, carries on into your subconscious mind during your sleep. What many don’t realize is our life is governed 95% by our subconscious mind. It is literally 1,000 times more powerful than our conscious mind.
So if you are thinking about and visualizing all your desires and the things that you want the Law Of Attraction to bring you before you go to sleep, you’ll literally fall asleep while doing it and all those thoughts and desires will shift immediately into your subconscious. The power of your subconscious mind will literally begin to start making this your reality.
Remember, every time you visualize you are one step closer to matching the vibration of your desire and manifesting it right into your existence.
Check out this video below of Eric Ho talking about this exact visualization method.
9. You Are Using Your Imagination Against You
Imagination and the Law Of Attraction go together hand in hand. You are given an imagination for a reason and that is so you can imagine and visualize how you want your life to be.
You are the creator of your reality remember. You can choose anything, it’s totally up to you. However, most people use their imagination in a negative light. Instead of using their imagination to see themselves as confident and successful and abundant, they use it to stress and worry.
You are free to use your imagination however you like, the only issue is when you use your imagination to stress and worry and see a negative outcome to your situation, you are attracting more and more of that into your life.
Get in the habit of using your imagination to see the greatest outcome possible. Picture yourself kicking butt and winning each and every day. Picture yourself with massive amounts of money in your bank account and a beautiful big house.
Keep feeding yourself these images and use your imagination to your advantage instead of using it for worry. The sooner you can do this, the sooner you’ll see the Law Of Attraction work amazing wonders in your life.
10. You Aren’t Reciting Affirmations
This is another step that really shouldn’t be skipped. If you do not already have a list of at least 10 affirmations that you use throughout your day, you need to start now!
Affirmations have been proven to work, even by many who don’t even believe in the Law Of Attraction. The more you recite your affirmations, the quicker you begin to believe them and the faster the Law Of Attraction begins attracting exactly what you are affirming.
Figure out exactly what “area” of the Law Of Attraction and your life you may have some doubts about and start doing some research to find the best affirmations for you to use.
Here is a small list below of some of my favorites from The Joshua Diet by Gary Temple Bodley. Feel free to use them for yourself!
I am a worthy being.
I am worthy of everything I desire.
I am unique to all the universe.
No one like me has ever lived before or will ever live again.
I create my own reality through the thoughts I think.
I can choose to think any thought I like. I have free will.
I can choose to see the good in everything because I am good.
I cannot fail, because there is only expansion, there is never failure.
I have a right to enjoy my life the way I deem it to be. I can choose anything. It is up to me.
This is my universe. Everything in my universe is happening for me.
I am being flooded with well-being.
I am perfect in this moment as I am and I improve with each new moment.
I am strong. Everything is always working out for me.
That wraps up the list of the 10 reasons the Law Of Attraction might be failing you. Start trying to figure out exactly what step you might be missing and starting today, try putting it into practice.
Chances are you are so close to manifesting what you want but you just have a few small tweaks you need to make to your vibration.
The important thing is to trust and not give up hope! The Universe is ready to give you everything you want… You just need to be ready to receive it!